Merry Christmas!

The true meaning of Christmas

Everyone knows that christmas isn't just about gifts or noche buena.. It's all about Spending time with your love ones and showing them how much you care for them.. Gifts are just representations of your love but it doesn't mean na pag wala kang gift e wla ka naring pagmamahal sa kanila.. There are a lot of ways in showing how much you care for the person. You don't have to buy expensive gifts or treat them to expensive restaurants.. It's just simple, you can show it to them by sending them letters or personal greeting cards. You can also make your own greeting card! You see, it is the thought that counts! at pag sariling gawa mo ung card e mas maaappreciate pa nung person.? You have the time to be with your family, relatives and friends. A simple text message nga lang from you is enough to show the person that he or she has an important role in your life. And to make your christmas more uplifting, try to help those who are less fortunate. Street children or beggars na makikita mo sa kalsada, give them food or kahit barya lang. (pero im not really encouraging you to give them money ha.. para sakin kasi mas ok ung food e.) That would be enough.. And the best part of all is that you have to thank the Lord for all the blessings that He has given you. Attend mass with your family or friends. Greet the people around you kahit na di mo sila kilala, if you want, you can ask for their names, o diba, di may new friend ka pa.. *wink* Remember that the spirit of christmas is sharing..(sharing what you have kahit na maliit lng o simple lng 'to)

~Life’s a prison when you’re in love alone~

Have you ever experienced this: Loving someone who already belongs to someone else or who loves somebody else.. masaklap ang ganong pangyayari dahil minamahal mo sya pero di nya magawang mahalin ka dahil may gusto syang iba.. haayy.. napakasakit tlaga.. Nandoon ka parin para sa kanya, nagpapanggap na ok lang ang lahat, ang mas masakit pa dito ay minamahal mo sya nang patago. Hindi mo sa kanya masabi na mahal mo sya dahil natatakot ka na malaman ang katotohanan na kahit kailan ay hindi nya matututunang mahalin ka. You feel alone, non-existent, down and blue. Palagi mong sinasabi sa iyong sarili na: "tama na," "ayoko na," pero hanggang dun ka lng, puro salita lng dahil alam mo rin sa iyong sarili na di mo sya kayang kalimutan. Sasabihin naman ng mga kaibigan mo: "ano ka ba, marami pang iba!" hmm, sabagay, totoo nga naman.. marami pa talagang iba dyan, marami pang mas gwapo, mas mabait, mas deserving sa love na ibinibigay mo sa kanya pero bakit ganon?!! bakit ayaw parin... bakit ganon kahirap turuan ang puso na "wag mo na syang mahalin, iba nalang." Ang hirap talaga! magulo sa isipan at masakit sa damdamin.. Isa lamang ang maipapayo ko sayo kaibigan, "kaya mo yan!" Try to concentrate more on your studies or help those who are less fortunate.. o diba.. you'll benefit a lot from that..ang mabuti pa doon ay nakakatulong kapa sa ibang tao..makakaya mo yan sapagkat nandayan SYA.. God is always here for us. Di NYA tayo pinapabayaan.. Always have a positive attitude! Remember that God is here to guide us and to make us stronger. Tapos bigla mo nalang marrealize na: "nakayanan ko rin pala!" tama, pagsubok lng un, matatapos din un..Pero syempre you should also learn from your experience.. para next time na maulit uli yun ay alam mo na ang iyong gagawin.. And syempre don't forget to thank HIM. Pray ka lang. Theres always a right person for you, dadating din yun kaya wag kang magalala.. Di mo rin kailangang magmadali.. Just go on with your life! Bata ka pa at marami pang dadarating sa iyong buhay, mas marami pang pagsubok na makakaharap.. Pare ko, lahat nang yun ay makakayanan mo basta magtiwala ka lang sa KANYA... di ka NYA papabayaan. *wink*

Who will you choose, the one you love or the one who loves you?

So now you're in a state of confusion.. Who will you choose? Ang taong mahal mo na di ka manlang magawang mahalin dahil may mahal na syang iba o ang taong mahal ka? Pero teka lang.. bago ka gumawa ng decision, may mga katanungan paring bumabagabag sa isipan mo.. tulad nang: "mahal nya ba talaga ako?" hmm... maaring hindi ka nya ganoon kamahal dahil kakakilala nyo palang at ang mas nakakapagpagulo pa dito ay parang napikot ka lng nya dahil sya mismo ang nagsabi na kayo na!! (ang gulo naman!) Oo, magulo na kung magulo.. Kayo na pero sya lang ang nagsabi nito.. ikaw naman, di mo alam ang sasabihin.. naguguluhan ka ngunit di ka makatanggi.. pero alam mo sa iyong puso't damdamin na iniisip mo parin ang iyong minamahal habang pinipilit ka nung isa na maging kayo na.. (patay! e pano na yan.. kayo na ba?) nako iyon ang problema.. pano kung naguguluhan ka parin ngayon at narealize mo na: "sh*t ayoko.." anong sasabihin mo sa kanya?? kawawa naman sya.. (e sira-ulo pala un e.. sya naman nagpilit na maging kami e) haha.. kasalanan nya rin kasi.. pero may kasalanan ka rin.. bakit kasi wala kang sinabi? di ka pumayag pero di ka rin tumanggi.. hayy.. naisip mo na mabait naman sya e pero may mga ugali lang talaga sya na hindi mo pa naiintindihan dahil nga kakakilala nyo palang... (ang hirap naman nito.. sakit sa ulo!) At eto pa ang problema.. nung una mo syang nakita wala ka talagang attraction sa kanya.. hindi mutual ung naramdaman nyo.. napatanong ka nanaman: "hiondi kaya natuwa lang sya sayo? Dahil palagi nyang sinasabi na di ka tulad ng iba, na di ka daw maarte at marunong kang makisama.." Maaaring ganon nga lang pero di mo pa malalaman yun sa ngayon.. naguguluhan ka parin, ano na ba ang gagawin mo? papatagalin mo pa ba `to o tatapusin mo na? bibigyan mo ba nang chance ung taong may gusto sayo o hindi na? babalik ka parin ba sa taong mahal mo kahit na alam mong di nyang magagawang mahalin ka?

Our Savior..

As I stood outside the doors. I tried to prepare myself for what I was about to see. But when I entered the room I had no idea that my life would be changed so drastically. I sat there in silence, as all did. The room was filled with the flickering light of the screen. As I cried, only a little bit, too shocked to move. I felt like my heart was broken inside me. I wanted to cry , but felt it hard to breathe, I watched in silence. As this man demonstrated what Jesus did for me. It broke my heart and tears began to flow. I felt helpless and I wanted to make them stop. The pain I felt was like nothing I've ever felt before. Then I began to cry out to God. I realized at that moment if He had not done this for me. This love that I feel for Him now would have never come to be. He laid in the temple yard beaten. His face disfigured from the punches and blows. The robe he wore was covered in blood as red as a rose. With every ounce of His strength He pulled himself to His feet. Only to be knocked down again. But all that He did was for me , what greater love shown by a friend? When they lead Him away , His body was weaken by the Pain. The Roman soldiers had no pity on Him and began to beat Him again.They slapped Him in the face and knocked Him to the ground. No idea that this was all for them as well. That this man would one day rise up and reign over all man and save many from Hell. As He carried the cross on His back to the place where He would soon die. You could hear people weeping all over the room. As many in the crowd cried. We all knew what was next and it made it hard to bare. All our eyes fixed on the screen. All you could hear was the sobbing cries of the weeping. The sounds of those mourning in despair. The actor laid on the cross as they drove the nails in his hands and in his feet But I could see only Jesus there giving His life for me.The movie became real, the pain was real, the tears ,and the blood. And then it was like God spoke to me and said" There is no greater love. My son did this for you. He laid his life down so you wouldn't have too.He traded his crown in Heaven for a crown of thorns and a beating you would never indure."I knew at that moment that this had to be.Even though it seemed so unfair.But the greatest thing happened! God caused my eyes to open and see. The crucifixion became clear.I could truly see what really happened.No greater love was shown to me.Than the day Christ was nailed to the tree.

What type of Lover are you?

1) You have liked two people at the same time before.
A. Yes (Go to Q4) B. No (Go to Q2)

2) You prefer younger person rather than older than you.
A. Yes (Go to Q5) B. No (Go to Q3)

3) You usually declare your feelings first when you like someone.
A. Yes (Go to Q5) B. No (Go to Q6)

4) You see your parents and couples like them as the ideal relationship between two, intimate people.
A. Yes (Go to Q7) B. No (Go to Q5)

5) You prefer to wear colorful intimate apparel.
A. Yes (Go to Q8) B. No (Go to Q9)

6) You would never forgive your partner for cheating on you.
A. Yes (Go to Q9) B. No (Go to Q5)

7) You prefer to eat at home rather than to dine out.
A. Yes (Go to Q10) B. No (Go to Q8)

8) You like Marilyn Monroe more than Audrey Hepburn.
A. Yes (Go to Q11) B. No (Go to Q9)

9) You enjoy giving presents to people.
A. Yes (Go to Q12) B. No (Go to Q11)

10) The two important qualities your partner should possess are human warmth and
kindness.
A. Yes (Go to Q13) B. No (Go to Q11)
11) You often fall in love at first sight.
A.Yes (Go to Q14) B. No (Go to Q15)

12) You tend to pursue excitement over stability in love.
A. Yes (Go to Q14) B. No (Go to Q15)

13) A divorce would be absolutely out of the question for you.
A. Yes (A-type) B. No (Go to Q16)

14) You don't dislike reptiles or other creepy creatures.
A. Yes (Go to Q21) B. No (Go to Q17)

15) You are against pre-marital sex.
A. Yes (H-type) B. No (Go to Q17)

16) You often hear that you are sexy.
A. Yes (Go to Q21) B. No (Go to Q19)

17) You firmly believe that love can be obtained.
A. Yes (Go to Q20) B. No (Go to Q19)

18) You consider the person's educational and family background as a more

essential factor for marriage than your feelings for him/her.
A. Yes (E-type) B. No (Go to Q21)

19) You feel that anything is forgivable if you love a person
A. Yes (B-type) B. No (Go to Q20)

20) You often desire things that other people already possess.
A. Yes (D-type) B. No (C-type)

21) Your relationships never lasted longer than 3 months.
A. Yes (G-type) B. No (F-type)

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The Result:

A-type
Cinderella Type. Just like Cinderella, you were the heroine of a beautiful and happy love story in your former life. This does not mean that you were born with this privilege or that you necessarily had this happiness until the end of your life. You actually witnessed the harshness of reality as child,including the loss of your parents and poverty. But all this darkness disappeared the moment you met the love of your life and a new bright light started to shine toward your way. You ultimately gained happiness and honor through love. Both of you genuinely loved each other and enjoyed a blissful life for a very long time. It is just natural that this genuine life in your previous existence can only be ablessing in this present moment. This may be the opportunity to work for charity by helping out other people in need and to be thankful.

B-type
The Charitable type. You were the devoted lover in your former existence that dedicated your whole being to the object of affection. When you fell in love, you forgot about everything else including your own self. You experienced a lot of pain because many people took advantage of your kindness. All your lovers were beautiful people but they possessed narcissistic qualities, which was the result of your breakups. Their selfishness never allowed them to return the love that you continuously provided for them. But you never despised them for the wounds they left on you. What you should do in this life-time is to become more sensible, rational, and calculative, so that you will not have to endure so much pain as you did in the past. Don't just settle for anyone who crosses your path but wait patiently for someone who will provide you with a reciprocal love.

C-type
The Lascivious type. You were a very fickle person in your previous life, who could not stay with one partner for a long time. Love was something you had to experience through as many people as possible and only then were you happy a person. You met many, diverse people whom you shared an intimate relationship with. Although you were an amorous lover, you possessed cold and rational mind. It gave you this power of never being hurt by someone. It will be difficult to settle down completely for you unless you meet a very charismatic person that will capture your entire heart.And a journey for you would not completely end with marriage either.

D-type
The Reckless type. You were the center of a love triangle or an immoral love that was destined to end tragically. Your rash and independent spirit set the stage for a love story like this. You were an egocentric character who broke many people's hearts. In this way, you were much like the C-type that was previously mentioned. You moved on from one person to another as soon as that spark or passion for you faded. A person who existed as this type in the past is bound to be affected by the seremnant qualities today. This is why it is vital to appreciate the other person in your relationship now and to become more mature. Getting rid of your selfish desires may be the key to a happy relationship for you.

E-type
The Romeo and Juliet type. You are one of the few people who experienced the most passionate love affair in your former life. It was love at first sight and both of you could not think of anything else during the day than to dream about eachother. It was a Romeo and Juliet love affair, which may not have ended in disaster just like in the story. Your families may even have been very accepting about your relationship. But the likelihood of a passionate love increases the more obstacles are between the two lovers. But theaffection tends to fade when there is no conflicting element involved. Therefore, it is important for you to be more patient in your present relationship. The challenge is tokeep that passion going by constantly introducing new and interesting ideas.

F-type
The Plain type. You did not find love through your own actions but with the help of other people. You were in your own comfort zone, so that it was not necessary for you to find someone special. This is why you were far away from experiencing a fervent love affair. Everybody accepted your relationship with your partner and stability may be have been the pivotal characteristic of your love. Many people would not even consider this peaceful and simple relationship to be love but it may just be the true essence. You may feel perfectly comfortable with an arrangedmarriage.

G-type
The Abusive type. There is no human being who perfect and therefore a certain contradiction exists within us. Thus, an internal conflict between cruelty and kindness is apparent in us. You were familiar with this conflict in your previous life, where mistreatment was used on people. There was a lot of anger in you and this may be a reason why you were open to challenges without a blink of an eye. You often found this sardonic pleasure when you made a person feel sad or perplexed. Monotony did not exist in your vocabulary and so you looked for excitement. A little child exists in you that is waiting for stability and you have shot at finding love when you find the person who is able to provide this comfort for you.

H-type
The Glass Marble typeYou were a purely naive person who was scared to be hurt. This led youto love a person from afar but the chance that you came together was very slim. You were a sociable person but oddly enough, you became the shy and quiet person in front of the person you liked. The painful event occurred the day your object of affection became another person's mateand moved to another far away place. You have to accept the fact that you will not see a relationship in the future if you don't start gaining some courage to make that crucial advance. You can start with taking subtle steps toward that person.

*I'm the B type, too bad for me..Well, it's true. until now.. ganon parin..=( *